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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.

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From the Blog

After A While…

after a while






I came upon this poem and thought it very special, enjoy. 


After a while, you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
And company doesn’t mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
And presents aren’t promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in midflight.
And after a while, you learn
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure.
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth
And you learn and learn…
With every goodbye, you learn.

~ Jorge Luis Borges

How To Get A Man To Change

And How To Keep Your Sanity When He Won’t!

I hear a lot of complaints from frustrated women asking how to get a man to change. Even when they’re in an established relationship they still want know what they can do to get what they want.

Their complaints are different but they all revolve around men who don’t do what’s asked of them — either because they don’t want to or they can’t.

Here are some common examples:

“Why won’t Rob stop texting and call me more? I’ve told him a hundred times I NEED to hear his voice but he either forgets or just doesn’t do it.”

“How do I get Dan to care about time? It doesn’t matter if it’s a movie, a doctor’s appointment or just lunch, he’s always late. I told him how important being on time is to me. Why won’t he do this one thing?”

“Martin promised to clean up after himself. It lasted a few days. He drops his clothes and towels on the floor and leaves a mess wherever he goes. He doesn’t even see it! I just can’t stand it any more.”

How do these women get a man to change?

All three have the same problem; they keep asking their men for something THEY’RE NOT GOING TO GET!

Why? Because each of these men KNOW what is wanted Continue>>>

What Do Men Really Want in a Woman?

happy couple, marriage, romanceI bet you’ve asked yourself this question more than once, hoping to learn the secret that would make a man love you and never leave.

But falling in love is not like baking a cake, there’s no recipe you can follow to get the same results each time. Relationships aren’t that simple, each man will bring out something different in you. The bottom line is that there is one thing that all men respond to: how you make him feel about himself.

The things you think you may be lacking as a woman aren’t even important; for example, you don’t have to be a sexy siren in bed or the world’s best conversationalist. The truth is that if he doesn’t feel good about himself around you nothing you do will help. If a man can feel happy and comfortable in your presence, you have what it takes to keep him coming back for more.

Part of his feeling good is determined by the chemistry you share between the two you. That’s not something you can control, it’s biological. But a good part is in your power. You will inspire these feelings in a man if you are happy and comfortable with yourself when you are with him.

There is no magic recipe; it requires that you show up as your authentic self in the relationship. If you feel insecure about who you are with him, he will feel it and he won’t Continue>>>

Are You Letting Confusion Ruin Your Love Life?

love lifeIf you’re getting more confused about the status of your love life as time passes, it’s a big red flag. But it’s not about him, it’s about YOU.

You’re probably asking yourself, “Have his feelings changed? Why is he doing that? What is he thinking? Does he still love me?”

All this thinking is so just so confusing right? You just can’t figure him out.

Well I have to tell you, and remind myself as well, confusion is a passive state of being; it’s a cop-out. Confusion is a big waste of time!

Why do we go there so easily? What keeps us confused when all we want is to be clear?

Well, let’s be truthful. It feels more comfortable to get advice from professionals and friends than to just ask him what’s going on. The idea of demanding an answer from a man is just too scary, especially if you have the intuition that you’re going not going to like what you hear.

Confusion is a way we give ourselves a pass at being decisive. We feel safer in a state of “not knowing.” We analyze a man’s behavior to avoid feeling powerless, but it does just the opposite. Continue>>>