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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
I was single into my early 50’s — and an expert on being needy and desperate — but I changed all that. I’ve been married to the love of my life now for 15 years and I can help you do the same.
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by Virginia Clark
on April 20, 2023
Love won’t necessarily walk into your life if you only do things that are comfortable for you. To find love, it requires that you step outside your comfort zone and take a risk.
Lets face it, falling in love is a step into the unknown. Our daily life, with it’s routine and familiarity, can actually hold us back and hinder our search for the heady and exciting experience of meeting that special someone.
Doing the same things repeatedly and expecting a new result is insanity defined. So to get new results it makes good sense that you need to do new things. Shake things up a little.
They’re hundreds of ways for you to infuse your life with the spice of something new to find love. Just like a great cook, you can change the flavor or your life experience by adding some key ingredients. The things that work best are the ones that make you feel excited and even a little scared. That’s when you know you’re [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on March 12, 2023
“He loves me, he loves me not.”
Do you remember playing this game when you were young? Think of all the daisies that had their petals torn off by girls (like myself) asking this all-important question.
It’s a haunting refrain that continues to be asked by women of every age; how to know if he really loves you?
The 3 words “I love you” are the most anticipated communication in any romantic relationship. They transform a man from someone you’re dating to being your boyfriend. They are the big “game changer” and considered the ultimate commitment.
If you’re wondering if he really loves you, your next question should be: Why are you asking? Is there a niggling feeling inside that makes you doubt his true feelings? The answer is important because no matter how many times a man says those words, you have to take the time to reflect on whether you’re feeling the emotion behind them.
3 ways to help you know if he really loves you:
1. He trusts you with his feelings.
Without intimacy there is no love. Intimacy is the ability to let someone see that part of you that you don’t share with the world. It’s one of the primary needs that a strong love relationship fulfills. We all crave having a special someone with whom we can safely share some of our most secret thoughts and feelings. Women are more [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on February 10, 2023
5 Warning Signs Your Relationship Might Not Last
Relationships start with strong mutual attraction and the expectation of a future together. Hopes are high that we’ve found our Mr. Right and the feeling is intoxicating. But you may be wasting time in your relationship.
After a strong start it can be hard to recognize when things start to subtly change. The relationship feels different and you start to ask yourself, is this relationship going to last?
Here are some warning signs that you may be wasting your time:
1. You start to see inconsistencies in his behavior and experience occasions of lying and deceit.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship; without it love can’t mature and grow. If you accept excuses for lying and rationalize bad behavior you’re asking for more of the same and you’ll get it.
2. You feel like you’re putting in all the effort and he’s just going along with your plan.
We tell ourselves men don’t act the way we do in relationships so we let their lack of effort slide. But strong and loving relationships require that both partners participate fully. Each person has to take equal responsibility and commit totally to the growth of the relationship.
3. You feel clingy and insecure around him even though he says everything is OK.
We’re masters at ignoring our intuition, especially when it’s telling us something we don’t want to hear. We’ll believe what a man tells us is true while we ignore [continue reading…]
by Virginia Clark
on November 22, 2022
Dear Virginia,
I’m 39, never been married & I don’t have children. Up to this point I understand that I’ve picked men who are unsuitable & I have certainly learned what I don’t want. However, I’ve been dating a man for only a month, it’s been a long time since I’ve felt such an attraction to a man in all areas. How do I enjoy the courtship? Right now, all I’m doing is obsessing about how I get him to be exclusive with me. This is all after just one month? I just want this to work & I don’t understand why I’ve pinned all my hopes on something so new. Please help! Doris
I know exactly what Doris is talking about and I feel her pain. Hers is a common problem. It doesn’t matter your age or intelligence, we’re all susceptible to obsessing over a man and falling in love too fast.
Why do we get attached so quickly? We know we shouldn’t and it certainly doesn’t feel good. We end up feeling anxious, scared and out of control. It’s like our emotions are on a runaway train we can’t stop. Our authentic self, which is the loveable part of us, gets pushed aside and the more insecure parts of us take over.
Like Doris, we’re afraid [continue reading…]
Release what’s been standing in the way of finding your special someone.
