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From the Blog

What To Do When He Goes From Hot To Cold

Goes From Hot To ColdThere’s a time in most relationships when a man suddenly goes from hot to cold. He’ll seem to be more distant as if he’s starting to pull away.

This change can throw us into a panic, making us feel insecure just when things were beginning to feel so good.

It’s common to interpret this change of behavior as being our fault, creating an emotional reaction that’s way out of proportion. Old hurts and wounds from childhood get triggered and suddenly we’re like a kid again, afraid of losing the love we depend on for survival.

Our self-confidence, which received a boost with this romance, suddenly crashes into confusion and self-doubt. We thought we were strong but we now feel like a helpless victim of his change of heart. Desperation overrides our good judgment and we find ourselves in our primal “flight or fight” mode.

This is when we revert out of fear to our primary survival patterns.

If our survival pattern is fight, we’ll run after a man who’s turning cold. We’ll go into pursuit, finding ways to make ourselves more attractive or become more sexually aggressive. We’ll text, email or call him trying Continue>>>

Are You Wasting Time In Your Relationship?

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5 Warning Signs Your Relationship Might Not Last

Relationships start with strong mutual attraction and the expectation of a future together. Hopes are high that we’ve found our Mr. Right and the feeling is intoxicating. But you may be wasting time in your relationship.

After a strong start it can be hard to recognize when things start to subtly change. The relationship feels different and you start to ask yourself, is this relationship going to last?

Here are some warning signs that you may be wasting your time:

1. You start to see inconsistencies in his behavior and experience occasions of lying and deceit.

Trust is the foundation of any relationship; without it love can’t mature and grow. If you accept excuses for lying and rationalize bad behavior you’re asking for more of the same and you’ll get it.

2. You feel like you’re putting in all the effort and he’s just going along with your plan.

We tell ourselves men don’t act the way we do in relationships so we let their lack of effort slide. But strong and loving relationships require that both partners participate fully. Each person has to take equal responsibility and commit totally to the growth of the relationship.

3. You feel clingy and insecure around him even though he says everything is OK.

We’re masters at ignoring our intuition, especially when it’s telling us something we don’t want to hear. We’ll believe what a man tells us is true while we ignore Continue>>>

After A While…

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I came upon this poem and thought it very special, enjoy. 

AFTER A WHILE

After a while, you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
And company doesn’t mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
And presents aren’t promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in midflight.
And after a while, you learn
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure.
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth
And you learn and learn…
With every goodbye, you learn.

~ Jorge Luis Borges

How To Get A Man To Change

And How To Keep Your Sanity When He Won’t!

I hear a lot of complaints from frustrated women asking how to get a man to change. Even when they’re in an established relationship they still want know what they can do to get what they want.

Their complaints are different but they all revolve around men who don’t do what’s asked of them — either because they don’t want to or they can’t.

Here are some common examples:

“Why won’t Rob stop texting and call me more? I’ve told him a hundred times I NEED to hear his voice but he either forgets or just doesn’t do it.”

“How do I get Dan to care about time? It doesn’t matter if it’s a movie, a doctor’s appointment or just lunch, he’s always late. I told him how important being on time is to me. Why won’t he do this one thing?”

“Martin promised to clean up after himself. It lasted a few days. He drops his clothes and towels on the floor and leaves a mess wherever he goes. He doesn’t even see it! I just can’t stand it any more.”

How do these women get a man to change?

All three have the same problem; they keep asking their men for something THEY’RE NOT GOING TO GET!

Why? Because each of these men KNOW what is wanted Continue>>>