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10 Troubling Signs You Might Be A Victim Of Emotional Abuse

emotional abuseThis behavior is not normal and it’s not OK. (You deserve so much better.)

Just like an alcoholic denies their drinking problem, people in emotionally abusive relationships often default to denial as well.

There’s a common thread that runs through every abusive relationship — fear.

An abuser of any kind is an expert at making you afraid in big and subtle ways. Here are classic, sinister ways your partner actively makes you a victim of emotional abuse:

  1. Destroying your self-esteem with constant put-downs
  2. Bullying you so you feel weak and helpless
  3. Insulting you so you think no one else would ever want you
  4. Controlling you by dictating what’s right or best for you
  5. Criticizes you so you no longer trust yourself
  6. Making you dependent by destroying your confidence
  7. Focusing only on your faults so you forget your value
  8. Creating a “you” against “them” dynamic, separating you from others
  9. Insisting his needs are the priority, so you ignore your own
  10. Keeping you guessing so you can never feel safe

When you recognize you’re with an emotional abuser, it’s not easy to free yourself from their tight grip. The relationship has most likely sapped your strength and weakened your will. Separating from your partner’s manipulative Continue>>>

3 Qualities That Can Save Your Relationship

save your relationshipIt’s common knowledge that kindness, honesty and respect are necessary ingredients for a good relationship. However, there are three other qualities that are often overlooked and are just as important. They can save your relationship.

If you master these three qualities you’re relationships will have a much better chance of lasting a lifetime.

1. Open-mindedness. The definition: “Willing to consider new ideas; unprejudiced.”

No matter how many relationships you’ve had, it’s always an adjustment to deal with a man who has different interests and opinions than you.

You will find yourself thinking, “I can’t believe he thinks this is a good way to spend his time,” or “Why does he always react that way, it makes no sense.”

It’s difficult to accept or respect someone else’s point of view, especially when to you it just seems wrong. We think he Continue>>>

When You’re Not Getting What You Want From A Man

not getting what you wantIn past relationships, when I wasn’t getting what I want from a man, I often couldn’t recognize myself. I’d become another woman, a lesser one, to accommodate what I thought my man was looking for.

Not only that, I put up with behaviors from a man I never dreamed I’d ever tolerate. At some time or other, we’ve all done this for love.

I recently worked with Joan. She’s 45 years old, once divorced and self-employed. She wanted me to help her get the man she’d been dating for 5 years to finally commit to marry her.

She was adamant that I understand how his life has been difficult all these years and for that reason he had been unable to make a commitment to her. He’s had problems keeping his construction business afloat and has to cater to a demanding “manic-depressive” ex-wife. He’s also upset and angry because his grown children seem distant and aloof.

She was crystal clear about what was going on his life, but Continue>>>

The Mistake You Make When He Loses Interest

when he loses interestVirginia, I can’t believe what I just did! Steven texted me last night, “I miss you” and that’s all he wrote. So I texted back “I don’t believe you, why haven’t I heard from you in 3 days??? What’s going on???” I haven’t heard from him all day and I just want to die, I’ve probably lost him for good. Help!!! Becky

When a relationship doesn’t go the way we want we get scared. Becky’s impulsive reaction to Steven’s text is all too common. Like Becky, it’s easy to jump to conclusions and lose perspective.

When we think a man is pulling away we experience it as a loss of power and we instinctively go on the attack to get it back. We blame him for making us feel victimized and we lash out.

None of us likes confrontation and yet that’s exactly what we jump to when we fear we’re losing a man’s interest. Emotionally we go from 0 to 100 in seconds and, like Becky, end up acting recklessly and Continue>>>