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It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.

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From the Blog

When You’re Not Getting What You Want From A Man

not getting what you wantIn past relationships, when I wasn’t getting what I want from a man, I often couldn’t recognize myself. I’d become another woman, a lesser one, to accommodate what I thought my man was looking for.

Not only that, I put up with behaviors from a man I never dreamed I’d ever tolerate. At some time or other, we’ve all done this for love.

I recently worked with Joan. She’s 45 years old, once divorced and self-employed. She wanted me to help her get the man she’d been dating for 5 years to finally commit to marry her.

She was adamant that I understand how his life has been difficult all these years and for that reason he had been unable to make a commitment to her. He’s had problems keeping his construction business afloat and has to cater to a demanding “manic-depressive” ex-wife. He’s also upset and angry because his grown children seem distant and aloof.

She was crystal clear about what was going on his life, but Continue>>>

The Mistake You Make When He Loses Interest

when he loses interestVirginia, I can’t believe what I just did! Steven texted me last night, “I miss you” and that’s all he wrote. So I texted back “I don’t believe you, why haven’t I heard from you in 3 days??? What’s going on???” I haven’t heard from him all day and I just want to die, I’ve probably lost him for good. Help!!! Becky

When a relationship doesn’t go the way we want we get scared. Becky’s impulsive reaction to Steven’s text is all too common. Like Becky, it’s easy to jump to conclusions and lose perspective.

When we think a man is pulling away we experience it as a loss of power and we instinctively go on the attack to get it back. We blame him for making us feel victimized and we lash out.

None of us likes confrontation and yet that’s exactly what we jump to when we fear we’re losing a man’s interest. Emotionally we go from 0 to 100 in seconds and, like Becky, end up acting recklessly and Continue>>>

To Have A Great Relationship Break Out Of Your Shell!

great relationshipIf you want a great relationship you have to be bold. True love isn’t timid, it’s wonderfully challenging. To be ready for love you can’t be too comfortable and set in your ways.

Here’s an analogy to help explain. Do you know which came first, the chicken or the egg? Does it matter? Not really, but you can learn something from this age-old question.

Imagine you’re the chick. You’re developing and growing larger inside the confines of your small egg. It’s getting more confining and crowded in there. It’s tight and polluted and you want OUT.

What do you do? There are two choices you can make. First, you hope and pray for a larger egg and wait to see what happens. Secondly, you decide to do something, to break out of the shell and face whatever awaits you on the other side.

Ponder a moment the difference between these two choices. Can you Continue>>>

5 Smart Reasons Why Women Should “Stay Single” After Marriage

Don't let the woman he fell in love with fade away.

Don’t let the woman he fell in love with fade away.

I think there’s something to be said for holding a percentage of yourself back; for keeping a part of yourself “single” after marriage.

Of course pouring yourself into your marriage is beneficial to the relationship, but if that pouring in occurs ALL the time, it will smother your love (and leave you depleted). The temptation to act like a “helicopter wife” is strong; but, too much of anything is, well, too much.

You must find a balance by holding back some of yourself. Fulfillment is found walking the line between devotion to your marriage and devotion to yourself.

Here are 5 reasons to keep a part of you “single” after marriage:

1. You ruin the give and take. If you focus your energy only on what you’re giving in your marriage, your husband won’t have room to give you anything back. He’ll be so busy receiving that he’ll forget to reciprocate. He’ll become lazy or neglectful and you’ll start to resent him. Marriage is a beautiful give and take. Stay open to receiving—from your spouse and from the world around you.

2. You lose your sense of mystery. The longer you’re married, the more Continue>>>