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Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!
It may be a life-long dream, or an idea you’ve finally embraced after years of being single — whatever your situation — I bet somewhere in the depths of your mind you have a nagging, desperate feeling that marriage is never going to happen for you.
I know exactly how you feel.
I was single into my early 50’s — and an expert on being needy and desperate — but I changed all that. I’ve been married to the love of my life now for 15 years and I can help you do the same.
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Healthy boundaries in your relationships don’t just happen, they require discipline and will power. I know this sounds about as appealing as going on a diet, but without healthy boundaries you will end up a victim of a man’s bad behavior.
Why do you need to make the effort to stick to your personal boundaries? They give you self-respect. They’re how you take care of and protect your mind, body and spirit. They give you a say in how you want your relationship to unfold; how much to give of yourself and when.
Setting healthy boundaries is the most important skill you need to have successful relationships. However, for many women, this can be very challenging. If you are someone who finds it hard to say “no,” boundaries will be particularly difficult to stick to.
How To Set Healthy Boundaries When Dating:
Look back on your past relationships. Identify the things you know you should have done differently. List the mistakes you made that worked against you. I bet the majority, if not all, involved you letting down your boundaries in some way. Take your time with this process, if you’re thorough you’ll most likely find a pattern of behavior.
Create a new healthy boundaries list. Use what you’ve learned from your past mistakes to make the changes you need now. See if there are any new boundaries that you would like to add, including social media and internet dating.
Determine to make your well-being a priority. This may sound selfish or self-centered to you — it is! You can’t rely [continue reading…]
Enjoy this interview I did February 12, 2013 for AZTV’s show “The Morning Scramble.” I was thrilled to be interviewed by Pat McMahon, a 7 time Emmy award winner and a super nice guy. He brought the male perspective into the conversation which I greatly enjoyed.
We women are expert doers and givers. If you don’t think so, look at your life and think of all the things you do for others. I bet you’re there for your girlfriends and family whenever there’s a problem. I know I am, I want to help and I want to be needed.
But your giving nature can become a problem when you are trying to create a loving relationship with a man. If being a giver is the way you relate to the world then most likely being vulnerable is hard and you don’t “receive” well from others.
This can cause frustration and heartbreak in your romantic relationships that you might not even be aware of it. It’s the main barriers that keep you from connecting deeply with a man. Being vulnerable is what attracts a man to you and gives him permission to open up himself.
When a man woos you, there’s an important aspect of his pursuit. He wants to take care of your needs and do things for you. Men need to feel that they’re important to you, that they are have something
to offer you that you can’t do for yourself. If you have a problem being vulnerable it will show up in many ways.
If you don’t know who you are, you’re in danger of becoming what a man wants you to be. This was one of the biggest challenges I had to meet before I could find true love.
It’s really about knowing your value as a woman. It’s about being aware of what you bring to the table in a relationship and, more importantly, in a marriage. I’m not talking about material possessions; I’m referring to the personal qualities uniquely yours that you share with your partner.
This might seem obvious, but it’s something I see many women overlook in their relationships. I know I did. I spent more time analyzing the men in my life than I did looking at myself. I scrutinized their behavior so I could figure out what they wanted from me. I did it all to get love. I wanted desperately to please them and to be the kind of girlfriend they would never leave. This behavior kept me single for many years.
I changed who I was with men so many times that I no longer knew myself. Other than my physical attributes, I had no real idea why a man should be going out with me. My self-awareness was pretty non-existent. And as Dr. Phil says, “you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge.”
Despite a successful career as a counselor, and years of my own therapy, I found myself nearing 50 and still unable to resolve my “relationship challenges”- meaning I still hadn’t found my life partner. Virginia helped me to access the hidden beliefs which drove my relationship behavior through hypnotherapy, places “talk therapy” couldn’t access. Over the 3 months I worked with her, my relationship went from my seeing my partner 4 days a month, and his telling me he felt “uncertain about his feelings me and our future” to his asking me move with him when he received a job offer across the country.Virginia’s creativity, sense of humor, and nonsense approach to personal growth make working with her both a joy and a powerfully transformational experience. ~Jenn Jolie, Boston, MA
“I was being forced to choose between my relationship or my desire to get married. I was desperate and chose to have a VIP Day with Virginia. Working with her saved me from making a big mistake. She gave me a totally new perspective about my relationship. She helped find the exact right words I needed to talk to my boyfriend and they worked like magic. I’m now happier in my relationship than ever before.” ~ Sarah P.
“I could tell my fiance was unhappy with me and I was scared he was going to break our engagement. I called Virginia for help.I was struggling with not knowing what I was doing wrong.Through working with her I realized I was actually pushing him away without knowing it! Her guided visualizations allowed my subconscious mind to open up. I saw that I was needy and I was shocked to realize that I was always nagging him and blaming him for things. I’d lost my independence and I thought it was his fault. Virginia saved me from losing the best man I’ve ever known.” ~ Bonnie S.
“I contacted Virginia because I had just broken up with my boyfriend. I was on a roller-coaster of emotions. She did guided work with me which got me through my intense pain. I saw how subconsciously I was willing to settle for crumbs from men and we worked on my self-esteem. Now I know what I really want and I believe I can have it. I’ve got my life back and my interests again.” ~Susan R.
“Since the VIP day with Virginia I have had the most beautifully calm week of my entire life…. Even my sister-in-law commented I am more self-assured!… and now I’m excited to meet the man who’ll be my perfect partner.” ~Angela R., Australia
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Healthy boundaries in your relationships don’t just happen, they require discipline and will power. I know this sounds about as appealing as going on a diet, but without healthy boundaries you will end up a victim of a man’s bad behavior.
We women are expert doers and givers. If you don’t think so, look at your life and think of all the things you do for others. I bet you’re there for your girlfriends and family whenever there’s a problem. I know I am, I want to help and I want to be needed.
If you don’t know who you are, you’re in danger of becoming what a man wants you to be. This was one of the biggest challenges I had to meet before I could find true love.
