Attract, Keep And Marry The
Love Of Your Life!

To attract true love, being your authentic self is a necessity. But it’s not easy. You want to be authentic but you end up becoming more the person you think you’re expected to be.

Subconsciously you may take on the qualities you think a man wants you to have. This can happen without you being aware, making it hard for you to recognize.

Or you may choose consciously to present yourself the way you think a man wants you to be. In either case, it’s not always easy to separate what you’ve adapted from what is truly organic to who you are.

If you neglect to be your authentic self it’s only a matter of time until your true self is revealed. I learned the hard way [continue reading…]

Are you a woman who’d rather stay quiet and go without, rather than ask a man for what you want? Sadly, you’re not alone.

Society raises women to think of other people first, so it’s no wonder we feel that our needs are not important.

If you don’t have the confidence to ask for what you want, doing so can seem as frightening or as painful as a root canal.

But if you don’t ask, how will you ever get what you need? It’s like hearing a constant “no.”

Any relationship, and especially marriage, requires the art of compromise. You have to express your needs if you’re going to create a life with someone. It’s the only way to take a relationship from “just dating” to “happily ever after”.

Don’t despair—you just have to learn what works. Once you do, you’ll actually enjoy expressing your wants and needs.

Here are 10 reasons you’re not getting what you want:

1. You’re not clear.

Before you ask a man for anything, be crystal clear about what you want. Express your need in a simple sentence; don’t make it complicated by over-explaining. If you’re straight forward, it will appeal to a man’s more logical mind and he’ll get a clear picture of what you’re asking for.

2. You don’t know why you want it.

If you don’t know why you want what you want, you won’t make a good argument for your case. You have to give him clear and concise reasons so it makes sense to his (once again) logical mind.

3. You’re indirect and wishy-washy.

Don’t beat around the bush. It’s okay to  Continue Reading>>>

Lie to yourself all you want, it’s not hard to tell if he cares.

It’s a simple idea, right? Even an obvious one, but I admit … I just didn’t get it.

Christopher had strung me along for 2 years. I lived in LA and he was in San Francisco. We were an hour apart by air, or 6 hours by car, yet we’d only seen each other twice in that time. It seems crazy now, but back then, it made sense. Well, the truth is I made it make sense. I convinced myself that he was my soul mate and that all I needed was patience and he’d soon come around. There may have been some abandonment issues I was not facing in that scenario.

This is only one of the relationship mistakes I made: waiting for Christopher. I made a few more, all because I desperately wanted my search for love to be over already; I was tired of being single. In my need to make Christopher “the one”, I lost my common sense. I went into a state of denial and stayed there far too long.

Here’s how I created this painful situation for myself.

I let other people’s influence keep me hanging on.

I was desperate to be loved so, anytime my better judgment tried to get my attention I would shut it down. Rather than

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