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Relationship Problems

Are You Wasting Time In Your Relationship?

5 Warning Signs Your Relationship Might Not Last Relationships start with strong mutual attraction and the expectation of a future together. Hopes are high that we’ve found our Mr. Right and the feeling is intoxicating. But you may be wasting time in your relationship. After a strong start it can be hard to recognize when [...]


Are You Letting Confusion Ruin Your Love Life?

If you’re getting more confused about the status of your love life as time passes, it’s a big red flag. But it’s not about him, it’s about YOU. You’re probably asking yourself, “Have his feelings changed? Why is he doing that? What is he thinking? Does he still love me?” All this thinking is so just so confusing right? You [...]


This behavior is not normal and it’s not OK. (You deserve so much better.) Just like an alcoholic denies their drinking problem, people in emotionally abusive relationships often default to denial as well. There’s a common thread that runs through every abusive relationship — fear. An abuser of any kind is an expert at making [...]


Don’t Snoop, Don’t Assume And Ask The Hard Questions

Cleaning out old papers I came upon this short story I wrote 28 years ago. I was writing about myself but didn’t realize it then. I had no idea that years later I’d be a relationship coach using my experiences to help other women avoid these pitfalls: don’t snoop, don’t assume and don’t avoid asking the hard questions. When Bruce put his key into the [...]